•We all know that men can at times be lead by lust to get between a woman's thighs.
So before saying yes to the big question ask yourself, would you still stay in that relationship if the guy was not able to satisfy you between the sheets.

Trevor Ombija
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The exclusive interview with Mpasho where Citizen TV hunk Trevor Ombija opened up about being dumped after being in a relationship with his ex for 10 years, has left us wondering how long is too long to date.

The bubbly presenter had even visited the girl's home and officiated the union but he got dumped anyway.

Watch the interview below.

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The big question is how long is too long to date someone before popping the big question?

Here are things to consider

1. Priorities

Knowing your partner's priorities is one way to know if the relationship has a future or not. When couples have different priorities such relationships rarely survive.

So before posing the big question ask yourself if you are on the same page ama you are dating yourself.

2. Commitment

In the case of Trevor, he says at some point their relationship was on and off.

Meaning the red flags were there but they both ignored them. Sometimes it's good to gauge how committed one is to a relationship.

It's better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage.

Lilian Muli in an interview with Muthoni Mukiri also shared how she was in a relationship with a man whose ego was over the roof.

He would never pick her calls and would only call her back.

She was the only one committed to the relationship.

 

3. Chemistry

Let's be realistic a relationship cannot thrive if there is no chemistry.

We all know that men can at times be lead by lust to get in between a woman's thighs.

So before saying yes to the big question ask yourself, would you still stay in that relationship if the guy was not able to satisfy you between the sheets.

If the answer is no, then move on and stop wasting each other's time.

The truth is there is never a formula as to how long one should date.

Some people date for years and never end up getting married, others date for weeks and end up happily married.

The best thing to go about this is to go with the flow, forcing things is never an option.

The tide will always overpower you if you do so. If you get rejected accept and move on after all there are other fish in the sea.

Ladies how long is too long to date a man?

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