Long-distance relationship
As we know Anerlisa and Ben Pol were in a long-distance relationship.
Ben Pol lives in Tanzania where he runs his business while Anerlisa lives in Kenya where he runs her business.
That means none of them was willing to give up their businesses for the marriage.
For such a young marriage distance was a waiting time bomb which eventually exploded.
Signing an NDA
Ben Pol revealed that before marrying Anerlisa he was made to sign a non-disclosure agreement, meaning he would not divulge information about his wife.
Such a marriage would make even the strongest of men feel like a weakling.
Furthermore, Anerlisa's financial worth is much higher than that of Ben Pol so we know anaeza mfiiiiinya.
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