Lillian Muli is asking single ladies to plan and know themselves before they decide to get into marriage. The screen siren shared this advice from Susan Nguttu, a relationship coach.

She wrote;

Dear Singles,

Some people are good wedding material but are terrible marriage material.

Some people are nice until they have finished with you.

Some are good caring and available as long as they can use you for themselves.

Some are ready for a glamourous wedding but unprepared for a blissful marriage.

Some men are biologically ready to be a father but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a husband.

Yet some ladies are biologically ready to be a mother but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a wife.

They work harder on the wedding plans, than they do on the marriage plans.

A wedding is for one day.

A marriage is for a life time.

Never you forget this.

If you promote a lady who is not ready to be a wife then you have to struggle to make her who she is not.

If you promote a man who is not ready to be a husband then you have to struggle to make him who he is not.

Lillian Muli was once married to Moses Kanene but later parted ways. The two are blessed with a child. She was later linked to Shabana FC boss Jared Nevaton.

The news anchor has two kids and has recently been sharing relationship advice as she has been through a lot when it comes to relationship. Talk of learning through experience!