Cheryl Kitonga became popular after she was 'exposed' by Mohammed Ali of Jicho Pevu  who revealed that she was the last person to be seen with the late city businessman Jaco Juma before he was shot dead by unknown assassins who are yet to be till now.

The expose` saw Kitonga trend for days.  Make made fun of her, mocked her and even created memes which were not so good. It left her embarrassed and humiliated. But although some people the likes of Caroline Mutoko, Kendi Ashitiva came out to defend Cheryl, the negativity directed towards her on social media diluted everything and she was left with nothing to do but remain silent.

Check out an extract from Kendi's open letter to Cheryl Kitonga.

"Girl I watched in such agony the expose on TV as your name, pictures and what should have been a private conversation between you and an acquaintance (the taxi driver) was splashed all over the screen. I saw how you became a topic of conversation, scorn and ridicule on social media. God knows what you and your family must have been feeling or going through not to mention Jacobs wife and family. Well I am not here to defend, accuse or justify anyone. I am here to tell you that you know what girl its not the end although you may feel like it is. We all have skeletons in our closets some more than others, it’s unfortunate that yours got to be told to the whole world with no one wanting to hear your side of the story.

As you know by now, its tough when a woman is associated with a sexual scandal, it is an attack to our very core. Men can do whatever they want my darling but not us, we are called the sluts. Again not justifying anything but that’s just how it is my dear. Monica Lewinsky, as well as many other prominent female leaders in our country, whose names I will not mention had their reputation torn to shreds after being associated with sexual scandals. Truthfully whatever happens between 2 people in private is never easy to establish, however society will only expose one member of the duo and that’s normally the woman. She is the one who is hung out to dry, she is the slut, she is the dirty one, she is the despicable one. Notice how every other person’s identity on the expose was protected but yours. I noticed that no one cared to shield your identity but the police; who only referred to you as the female occupant, but your secret was safe but only for a few more hours then all hell broke loose!

The truth is since the days of the bible, women experienced less forgiveness and less grace whenever they fell, especially sexually. The world can be a cruel place for a woman my darling. Did you know that in the past Jewish men used to pray Lord thank you for not making me A LEPER, A GENTILE OR A WOMAN. Yeah you heard me a Woman!!! But thank God for ONE MAN who changed the narrative. He changed the narrative for women ALL OVER THE WORLD!!!.."

Despite all the "publicity" nothing has changed the life of the University of Nairobi graduate. The clever thing she did was to keep a low profile. Life is still the same so is her social life. Cheryl still parties and hangs out with her pals just like before the expose. After all life has to move on. Recently, Kenyans on social media 'killed' Cheryl but despite all that hatred, she has decided to forge on with life and forget about the past.

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Well, I have been going through Cheryl's Instagram and the young lady is living life to the fullest. She has been sharing photos and videos of her life moments, a clear indication that she is indeed okay and no longer stressed up. She has no time for negative energy, and ignoring the public's opinion was the best thing she could ever do.

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Mwanamke kamili! Her silence was the best weapon! She is no longer relevant, everyone talked about her for a few days and later forget. Ladies borrow a leaf from Cheryl.

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