Let’s be honest, dating is fun but getting the right person is more like trying to reach the edge of the universe.

You have to work extra hard. That’s the hurtful truth. The worst thing that you can get is a rejection. There are a million ways that can lead to a rejection, as opposed to the few ways you can actually use to win over her heart.

To save yourself from being a victim of the friend-zone or a rejection, here are some bomb tips that you can use to ‘ingiza yeye box.’

1. Ask for a definite date

This means setting a day when you two can meet. Don’t hesitate with making decisions or asking her when she’s free and all that. The best way to get her seeing that you’re a man is to lead the conversation. This is where most guys fail. They keep thinking of when to ask her out. The time is NOW or she’ll get someone else to knock her off her feet before you do.

2. Make sure she’s interested

Another HUGE mistake that guys make is pushing for something that will never happen. If she shows no interest at all during the first advance, probably she’s seeing someone or is processing a heartbreak. That should be sufficient enough. Kwanza if she doesn’t reply to your texts and is always posting on Instagram, bruh, just let it go. Don’t waste your time forcing issues.

3. NEVER ask if she’s in a relationship

The moment you approach a lady and ask for her number, she will definitely know that there’s something cooking in your mind. Now, it’s your time to make her see the worth of it. It’s time to make an impression. Like I said, if she’s not interested at all, you’ll probably not even get the number in the first place. Once you start asking her about her love life too early, it puts her off. That’s how you end up being rejected - you come across as a super serious kinda dude.

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4. Don’t be too serious

Once the date is set up, make it an amazing date. Don’t make it seem to be a boardroom meeting by acting all sorts of serious. Joke, just throw come banter. Avoid discussing relationship issues. Don’t start talking about how you want a serious girlfriend who you’ll have kids within a year’s time. Once you do this, hehe, you’re out of her mind and you’ll NOT get a second date trust me. She’s gonna ignore you onward and the cycle will continue...you’ll be forever alone till you die.

5. Use VipiApp

This is the best dating app in town currently. What’s more fun about it is that it is made in Kenya. Through it, you get to meet loads of new people. You get to connect with your prospective girlfriend, know more about each other before you meet up. That’s when you get to know if she matches your personality or no. The app is also a platform for blogging - you get to post your thoughts for people to see; it’s a chance to show her how intelligent you are. You can download it from the Playstore. Thank me later!