Simon Louise and Mary Emmanuelle
Simon Louise and Mary Emmanuelle
The friend zone is real brothers! Let this next story be a cautionary tale for every man that thinks that he negotiate desire with a woman. You can’t. They either like you or not!
A man who donated a kidney to the woman he loves was overjoyed at saving her life but saddened when she said no to marriage.
Simon Louise
Simon Louise
The man had hopes that she would marry him but Mary was not feeling her “friend’. However the pair vowed to remain friends and Simon, 49, said:

“I offered her my heart but I had to settle for giving her my kidney. Whatever happens, I’ll never regret giving her the gift of life.”

Mary, 41, added:

“He is my very best friend and always will be. The love between us is real. He could have died doing what he did for me.”

The pair first met in a London club in the mid-1990s with Mary, then 20, thinking Simon, 28, was “a good-looking bad boy”. They shared an odd smooch and flirted but things between them never progressed further.
Mary Emmanuelle
Mary Emmanuelle
As the years passed they stayed pals, Mary busy with her young son Dwayne and her job as a stockbroker’s secretary while Simon helped his brother organise music events.
Simon, who had other relationships but never lost his feelings for Mary, would think of her on Valentine’s Day and buy her a rose or some chocolates.
Then in September 2014 Mary, who was only 37, suddenly collapsed at home after her skin went yellow. Son Dwayne, then 21, found her on the floor choking in her vomit and she was rushed to Guy’s Hospital in South London.
She was in a coma for a fortnight after a brain hemorrhage, spent two months in intensive care and was eventually diagnosed with end-stage kidney disease.
Her only hope was a transplant – but the chances of a donor being found were drastically reduced because she had very rare B negative blood.
Mary said:

“I couldn’t believe it – I had been given a death sentence. My name was put on a ‘dead donor’ list. I could only wait.”

She was discharged from hospital in January 2015 but had to return daily to be put on a kidney dialysis machine. Simon visited her every day, sometimes staying the night, so he could help her get to and from the hospital. 
Simon Louise and Mary Emmanuelle
Simon Louise and Mary Emmanuelle
He also helped to dress, bathe and feed her. In thanks, Mary took him on holiday to Spain and while they were away a donor was found – but they did not get back to Britain in time so the kidney was given to someone else.
By then Mary was so ill she moved into Simon’s East London home so he could care for her. She said:

“He was an excellent nurse. At night he’d lie on the bed, tell me funny stories and stroke me to sleep. The love and attention he gave me helped me through that dark time.”

A few weeks later Simon suggested getting tested to see if he was a match as a donor – and it turned out he was.
Simon Louise and Mary Emmanuelle
Simon Louise and Mary Emmanuelle
Months of assessments followed and then both underwent surgery before helping each other back to health. Then one-night cooking dinner, Simon plucked up the courage and proposed. Mary said:

“I felt incredibly flattered that he should want to marry me after seeing me at my absolute worst. But I let him down gently by saying I’d have to think about it. I think I’d worry if we got married it would in some way damage our special friendship and also I don’t want to get wed until I’m fully better health-wise.”

Hehehe! Even after all that “work” he put in, she still refused to marry him! Ma bro msitumiwe hivi Valentines. Just say NO!

Quotes from the Mirror.

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