Don’t ask me how I know this, but most Kenyan men get friend-zoned just after a few hours of starting the conversation. The real problem? Not leaving the right impression that will knock the lady off her feet.

I have experienced this before and gotten loads of exciting DIY info that you could try and make the it work. The first thing that a lady notices is the kind of questions that you ask on the first encounter and afterwards, how you text her.

If you are invading her privacy too much, she will find you to be a creep or some type of pervert who is just after getting into her pants. The best way is to be experimental - press the buttons right and carefully. If she is genuinely reserved, don’t persuade her. Don’t bother her with questions about when she lost her virginity or how many men she has dated. Just go straight to the point to save yourself time.

To keep the conversation fluid and steady, focus on knowing her basics first. Be laid back; maintain some mystery around you. Do not spill too much information about you within the hour of knowing each other. They will get bored (perhaps because of the information overload) and see no reason of talking to you anymore.

A perfect conversation may take several weeks to create a perfect bond. During this time, go on with your life as usual; work, study and only chat with her later when both of you are free. She will see you as a mature man, someone who has something going on in his life. If you text her in the morning, lunch time, evening and late night, she will most probably block you.

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If she stomachs your habit, you will be friend-zoned since independent, visionary ladies do not date men like you. By the way, the best way to talk with that woman of your dreams is by use of .

VipiApp is a new free dating and social networking app mixing free instant messaging, meeting new people near you wherever you go and posting of mini blogs.

The app applies matching concept when meeting new people. You get to discover and chat with people who you have interest in and also have interest in you. When you invite someone, they do not get to know until they also invite you back and the mutual invite creates a match and you can chat.

The best thing is that you can also use the app for meeting new people for business and you can blog on the platform. So, on top of meeting your love, you’ll advance in life in many ways; you can write about the fun topics that interest you. Whether it is fashion or food, you’ll be good to go!

So, get the App on the Google Playstore, it and use it to keep in touch with the lady you’ll meet. You never know, you might just get lucky!