'Atakutandika kama burukenge,' Kenyan men on why they can't date KDF babes

Piece by: Peninah Njoki
Lifestyle

Time and time again we have heard women in the National Police Service and KDF complain about not being approached by men.

Well, men opened their hearts during a conversation on Classic 105 and here is why most men would rather date or marry a commoner.

*Ken said that his ex-wife used to treat him like an enemy every time she came back to the house.

'I was married to a KDF officer for five years. I just woke up one day and left with just My bag.

I left everything even the kids because sometimes you get tired of how she treats you like the enemy she was facing out there on the field.

 I have never called her and I do not even think of her. Marry a commoner leave the disciplined forces alone.'

*Mike narrated how he witnessed his bae beating up a man, after that he ran for his life.

'I was dating a KDF until one day we went out and a fisi taxi guy tapped her a$$. The kind of beating he received I will never forget

I saw myself in that situation and when I remembered that there was a gun under our bed I left the next Day.'

Mwalimu Kingangi was confused as to how one can be comfortable marrying a woman who works in the police forces.

'Imagine marrying someone who works with Kenya police of KDF.

you are just chatting and she is just wiping her gun how can you bring the bullshit you bring to your mother? Utatandikwa.'

*Njoro was quick to point out,

'I was in the police Ile ilishinda mamba burukenge itaweza?

Fellow men in the defense forces wameshindwa kuwadate. wewe kama raia utaweza?

They sleep around to rise ranks, they are violent and never listen to anyone.'

*Omondi was, however, quick to defend these ladies stating that he is dating two women and both are in the police force.

'I am married to a KDF officer and a National Police Service officer and everything is OK between the three of us.'

*Albert also defended them stating that he is married to a KDF officer and she is very respectful.

'I am dating a woman in the KDF and I have no problem, we have kids and she is a good wife.

She is disciplined and faithful. personally I am a truck driver.

She leaves her gun at the armory and puts on the wife cap when she is at home.'

He was however quick to say that he never wrongs her.

'Why would I wrong her if yeye hajanikosea?'

Do you think female police officers whether in the National Police Service of KDF make bad partners? Would you date one?