I am so tired of seeing all the low self-esteem quotes about relationships that women post after getting their hearts broken. Actually, scratch that. I like seeing them because they usually cue us in on relationships that have taken a nose dive right into Splitsville.

Kamene Goro seems to also have had her fill of the pity party and she's now taking matters into her own hands and telling all of Kenya's lasses a thing or two about relationships, heartbreaks and respect in a relationship.

This is what she had to say:

Ladies, let me give you some advice. You can throw all your stupid fucking chick-lit, self-help, why-doesn't-he-love-me books out, because this is all you need to know: Men will treat you the way you let them. There is no such thing as "deserving" respect; you get what you demand from people.. if you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won't associate with you. It really is that simple.

Kamene Goro Confirms That She And Her Husband Are No Longer Together (EXCLUSIVE AUDIO)