Marriage? Kamene Goro reveals why she is not in a rush to wed

Piece by: Peninah Njoki
Lifestyle
Kamene Goro is daring, educated and well-spoken but she is not married and she is not in a rush to do so.
She is waiting for the right time.
The curvaceous damsel is for the idea that one should get married for the right reason and not because of circumstances eg desperation, unplanned pregnancies among other things.

Speaking during the Morning Kiss, Kamene narrates how a 'friend' ended up in a miserable marriage because of one bad decision.

 'Four years ago after I came back to the country I met  *Natalie.

We used to go on double dates for six months then I left the place I was working for at the time.

After I left Natalie and her man were doing OK until six months later when I learnt he was getting married to someone else.

Apparently the lady who was getting married was pregnant and I also knew her.'

 Kamene came to learn later that the bride-to-be was having second thoughts about the wedding but had no guts to stop it.

'There is a day I found her drinking and by looking at her I could tell something was wrong with her.

SO WE STARTED TALKING AND SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS ABOUT GETTING MARRIED TO THE GUY.

But she still went on with the wedding.'

Adding,

On the wedding day, the guy got so drunk and started misbehaving, the lady was very embarrassed by the behavior.

'But what could she do yet she had already signed the certificate?

A few years later, she has two kids,the guy still misbehaves and does not even hide it

Now she has two kids and she is always depressed but it's too late. Hata amechapa.'

Some people just get married because of circumstances