'Some women are so desperate for a ring that they buy it themselves' Says Jalango

Piece by: Peninah Njoki
Lifestyle

Kiss 100 radio presenter Jalango says some women have become desperate to have a ring on their fingers that they don't even care who put it there.

He says owing to the societal pressures of not staying single, women are now ready to settle with whoever.

"There are some women who only want a ring it doesn’t matter the situation, kwani it is a lie? There are women who even buy their own rings."

They don’t even care who put it, unajua hawa madem pressure ya kuolewa inawafikia, kila sku ni kwenda ruracio kama tent, whoever puts a ring on it that’s the guy." Jalang'o said.

Jalango also advised women not to assume just because they are living with a man wameoana.

Below are more scenarios when you shouldn’t assume you are married

  1. Just because he takes you to meet and hangout his friends

We all know how wicked some friends can be, they will even call you ‘our in-law’. What you may not know is that they call every lady they meet that.

 So just because you know your man’s friends does not mean mumeoana.

2. If he introduces you to his family

We have in the past seen people hire parents when asked by a woman to take them home for introductions.

So don’t assume that just because he took you home that you and him are married. Get him to wed you officially and get a marriage certificate.

It does not have to be an extravagant wedding, just get married at the AG’s office, kesi baadaye.

3. If he takes you to family functions

These functions may be funerals’ birthdays, goat-eating or any other function.

Some families are wicked and may not even tell you that the man you are with, who happens to be their son, is a joker.

4. Just because he treats you to outings

Don’t let how he treats you deceive you into believing that you two are married.

Utalilia kwa choo. To some people, pesa ni kama makaratasi so spending it on different women is not an issue.

Sis, get a certificate why waste your whole life with a man only for you to be told your union was null and void?