Kenyan gospel artiste Betty Bayo and ex wife to controversial pastor Kanyari has advised people to understand that marriage is not a competition.

According to Betty, the worst thing anyone can do is to get married to  the wrong person just for the sake of getting married.

'The pains of marrying the wrong person is worst than your present fear of not getting married.

Marriage is not a competition.

Take your time ,fall in love ,nurse your ambitions, Groom your relationship.

Because forever is too long to be unhappy.

Always remember that it is better to wait long than to marry the wrong person. Above all involve God.'

She was also quick to advise women not to leave their men just because they can't perform between the sheets.

“Attention!!! TO ALL WOMEN

DON’T leave your man coz he got broke

DON’T leave your man coz you got richer than him.

DON’T leave your man coz he can’t perform his duties .in bed

DON’T leave your man coz of Peer pressure .

DON’T leave a man coz his going through shame instead stand with him.

Don’t leave a man coz of social media.'

Adding

'LEAVE A MAN ONLY when HE TELLS YOU WITH HIS MOUTH TO LEAVE.

Don’t force your self it will cause more harm .. . my sister livuuu obedient is better than sacrifice.'