Akothee, the self-proclaimed president of single mothers, has said that bringing up kids alone is not something she intentionally chose to do.
It’s a tag that is accompanied by stigma, ridicule but most of all it is a position one is put in purely by a number of circumstances.
A fan wrote to Akother detailing how his wife want to leave him. Akothee gave the wife some advise.
‘I just found myself here ,through the struggles of life, escaped death 3 times 🙆♂️, I don’t even know what and how I did it, I never had a formula or strategy.
I still miss marriage life and being taken care of!
It’s very sad to be strong because you still take care of people even while in bed, with very few asking how you are doing!’
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Contrary to what people believe, Akothee says that the journey of being a single parent is lonely.
‘It’s very lonely up here, there is no really real life, you don’t know who is real or fake, it only takes you heartbreak to learn !
I wish your wife really knows what she is going for 🙆♂️, the stigma upon single parenting is real, sabotage and rejection 🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️.’
Her advise to people who would want to walk out of marriage she said.
‘Before she walks out of that home , let her know that maybe what worked for me ,might not work for her.
let her organize her home and try make it there.
But If you are also giving her too much rubbish, then I can’t tell her to leave.
I will just tell her “when she leaves, she should get ready for all the takatakas of all kinds before she see some light🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️’
Akothee shared her experience after a male fan told her that his wife wants to leave him severally.
‘Akothee, slowly you are turning out to be asmall goddess,my wife has threatened me several times that she wants to leave me
She wants to start her own life,citing you and your lifestyle as a point of reference,what she doesn’t know is bahati ya mwenzio usilaliye mgongo wazi.’
Going by the above narration Akothee kweli amepitia mengi. But she is a strong woman, a woman of steel.