'Huyu Mama Anavutanga Nini?' Kenyan Women Savagely Attack Bi Mswafari After She Told Single Mothers This

Piece by: Caren Nyota
Lifestyle

Citizen TV's relationship counsellor Bi Mswafari is one of the most popular personalities around. She has managed to create a niche for herself in the flooded showbiz industry. Known for her role of advising married couples, Bi Mswafiri has managed to gain both ardent fans and haters. She also has a huge following.

Bi Mswafari who is always known for teaching women how to be submissive to their husbands, forgive their men whenever they do wrong and cook for them.

Recently, she was savagely mauled by Kenyan women on social media. Last weekend, when discussing the topic on whether single mothers should get married with their children or not, Bi Msawfiri on live TV, said that single mothers should leave their children at home when getting married.

According to her, a woman should not trust a stepfather with her children especially girls. She urged that it could be safer to leave your children with your mother rather than going with them to your new husband. But this did not go well with single mothers. 

This generated a heated debate on social media and as usual, women came out in large numbers to savagely attack Bi Mswafiri. Most of them claim that she is irrelevant and her advice always favours men not women.

Here are some of the comments...

Agnes: That women is a traditionalist, if you listen to her she insinuates women should 'worship their husbands' . Hizo enzi za mabibi kuitika mabwana wakikohoa ziliisha. We are in a new era.

Enny: In Kikuyu we say 'weda mburi wedaga nginya kamukwa kayo' meaning the man should also want my kid too meaning I wont have to leave my kid at home in short popote niendapo mtoto wangu ataenda Kare gane.

Liz: You either love me with my baggage or leave me alone...My kid comes first na siwezi wacha yeye nyuma...I can't...That's my treasure.

Lilian angrily retorted, "So you chose your happiness over your child happiness. For a man. You deny your kid, your love, attention and just you for a man..Chiiiie???????????? kwani what is he offering, eternal life, life forever, life after death, surly stick to Jesus he has all this and he is a man."

Sharon: One thing about this stupid woman, she worships men, no way am going to leave my kid for a man kama hatanipenda na mtoto wangu boss tembeza kiatu, ata tukimeet ya kwanza before my name is my pride, my label, mama Belva.

Renee: Most of her ideas do not work in the current society. Everything has changed I wonder how she expects these old school ideas to still hold. She once said "mume avuliwe koti, atiliwe maji kwa bafu..... Bra bra bra,. Kwani ni toto? Shower zingolewe ama? N all this for what benefit?. Me thinks couples should be real to one another.

Awino: People still watch and listen to that old hag who has been left behind by the world. The last time i watched is when she said that married men do not seduce ladies for MWK it is the ladies who go for them.

Aoko: What that woman smokes only God knows. I stopped watching her crap.

Shikoh: Ashindwe sana...ati ni kazi ya mama kulipia watoto fees.

Stacey: Mimi huyu mama anafaa kutolewa kwa TV kabisa izi advice zake apeleke gishagi kule ametoka, she has outlived her relevance.

Juliet: Kitanda usichokilalia hujui kunguni mwake, maybe she thinks it's someone's fault to be a single mum.

Juma: Watoi wangu mbele mimi nyuma.

Rozy: Ukinunua ng'ombe lazima utaikubali na kamba yake...so if a man wants me and am single he should accept my kids too. Kwanza the first thing I will tell him nina watoi wawili, their isn't half a deal you either in or out.

Favor: You either love me with my baggage or leave me alone...My kid comes first na siwezi wacha yeye nyuma...I can't...That's my treasure.