Dear women, would you call your ex or boyfriend in front of your husband? What about if your husband did the same? How would you feel?

Read the sad story below of a woman who is going through hell with her husband of five years.

"I have been married for five years now though without any issue yet, but I'm not happy in this marriage. my husband is a very difficult person he will never appreciate or help with anything and cooking for him is another big problem as you have to ask before you can cook and he doesn't eat all this regular food.that aside

That aside, I have a business that was opened for me by my parents when I couldn't get a job few months into this marriage. I have been running this business for four years now and most of the time, that's where we get money for food because he only gives me money once in a while. Please note that my husband is a PhD holder and works as a lecturer. So the main issue is,  three weeks ago I gathered money to go buy some goods and a day before that day his car developed a fault and he collected mine though he owns the two so the mechanic said he will repair his with 150k and I had to travel the next day I just had to go because I was out of stock so I went but since I got back he has been giving me attitude. He refused to give money for food and I didn't bother I have been using mine without complaining.

So on Monday, he decided to talk, calling me all sorts of nameS, useless and stingy because I couldn't give him my money to repair his car. This is a shop that my husband has never given me a dime for in the last four years. The painful part is he told me even his girlfriend is trying to help him raise money and I can't give mine. The following day he was talking to the girlfriend right beside me without caring. I was angry but I didn't react. I just left the house the following day to a friend's place to cool off. Instead of him to be sober and let's settle this he is here threatening to divorce me saying I'm useless and stingy. I came back home yesterday And he too decided not to come home till this morning I have not seen him. I'm tired and drained emotionally please advise me as to know What to do when he comes back. Note my parents spoke to him and told him we should settle aND he denied calling girls in my presence but he'S refused to come home now."

Why do women have to suffer this much in marriage?

Here's some of the advice from online users

Diva: He is not going to change. He would get worse.

Temi: Calling girlfriend in your presence is highest "see-finish". I can't tell you what to do. Think, pray and decide. Life is too short to be unhappy.

Loritaa: God has been good to you! He has a reason for not giving you kids yet to suffer in that marriage with you... you should be grateful and find your way out.

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Lato: If your husband can call his girlfriend in front of you know what time it is. You're obviously also the head of the household. I am pretty sure he is spending money on his girlfriend. Your husband has no respect or love for you.

Shayi: Some women just like accepting crap from men. Let him be, ignore him, pretend like he doesn't exist..don't let anything he does get to you, you'll see what will happen.

Kip: What if I say that the both of you are not compatible and you should move on. That man has a child somewhere or he is impotent else he would have impregnated another woman. He doesn't love and respect you. Don't die childless waiting for a man who isn't ready. ##FACT... A woman can be with a man and have no child but the moment that marriage ends and she meets another, she takes in.

Neveelo: Fear lecturers!

Sharon: Just ignore him. Don't give him any attention, try to forgive him bcoz God use our forgiveness to punish em

Adhor: My advice, let him be. Ignore him.

Doro: If it gets worse, then you have to leave, there's nothing holding you back. Try to find happiness without him

Ivy: I'm not an advocate of leaving wen things get difficult but some situations call for leaving, there's nothing holding u back

Flex: Is that one husband? Stingy, disrespectful.

Jane: Prayers or with fasting. Ask God to turn your husbands heart to always favor you,if he's so bold to make calls in from of you to call his girlfriends then its mean he has no respect and fear for you as a wife, which means probably from the tone of your voice,or reactions when ever he speaks to you might cause this,all you need now is pray fervently for Gods intervention because your Husband first invited the Devil to your home and you also added by giving the devil more chance to reign," because all good things cometh from the Lord, because God will never tempt you with evil,God said all He created is beautifully and wonderfully made,stand up for your family and let Devil that he is liar....it is your choice if you want your marriage tattered or molded, I pray the Holy Spirit lead you through.