Broken relationship
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Maybe you broke up with your ex or are flirting with a new guy, but you want to know when does a man start to miss you, crave you.

Here’s how to do it.


Both of you should go about your lives the same way it was before you got together.

If anything, the relationship should be to compliment both of you.

Let your partner breathe besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder. You have your own life, go live it.

Quit oversharing

You’ve been posting an abnormally large amount of selfies, sad songs, and inspirational quotes. Stop. This doesn’t make anyone miss you.

It just proves their point. Create some mystery. This entails you being able to do your own stuff without having to let the world know. Stay on the low and reduce the amount of selfies you post on social media.


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Do not be desperate

I know you want him to miss you, but you need to stop trying so hard.

People can literally smell desperation and attention-seeking behavior.

If you look at your phone and noticed you’ve texted him fifty times without a response, then you’ve crossed the line.

Minimize your insecurities

Well, at least don’t try to show all of them right now.

You’re trying to get his attention because you want him to miss you, but you’re clinging to him.

That’s not attractive to anyone.

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Do not be too available

I know you want to show him you’re available, but that’s not going to make him want or miss you.

You need to show him you’re busy.

So, instead of constantly saying yes to every move he makes, say no.

But don’t just say no and then sit at home alone. You need to say no and then show him you’re out living your life.