Kweli mapenzi ni kizungu zungu. Everyone hates heartbreaks. No one wants to sit at home and bawl their eyes out crying over being dumped. The worst relationship drama is where you love someone who doesn’t even love you back.
Popular TV host for Cross Over 101 was brave enough to confess how a past boyfriend treated her badly. Grace Ekirapa who now co-hosts with DJ Mo, was a former KBC TV co-host on Angaza with Mr Tee. She says, the one sided relationship broke her.
“It was so crazy that I would look forward to just being around him even if he did not speak to me,” she said of the unrequited love.
Huyu ni fala gani? He did not see the beautiful soul that is Grace? His loss. Beside, being a TV and radio host, Grace is also an artiste. Check out her single Perfect. She has other hits like Kibali and Sifa.
In a Facebook post to encourage her fans, Grace wrote about how God loves unconditionally, she also gave a parallel example of when she loved a guy in the same way and he never reciprocated the love.
Here is what she posted.
Have you ever been in a relationship but clearly you are in it alone?? Well, for the longest time I was in a relationship with the man of my dreams, then. I truly thought it was a fairy tale. The only thing i forgot to see was that he was the man of my dreams but i wasn’t his. I loved him and respected him as well as i knew how. I didnt care whether he reciprocated and this was because i fell in love with him more than anything else. It was so crazy that i would look forward to just being around him even if he did not speak to me. I spoke about him to everybody who knew me and i’m sure they thought I was crazy. The relationship was one sided and only worked on his terms but i was too blind to see because i was in love. I communicated so often but he only responded when he had nothing to do. I bought the best gifts, and with the only money i had, sometimes. but to him, i was just another girl in love and i would get over it. He came first to me but for him i was never first.
Today i look at this and i reflect on our relationship with God. He is the one on the relationship that loves us unconditionally. We dictate how the relationship runs and only talk to Him when we have nothing else to do. We spend time with Him when we have run out of plots. We give to Him what we don’t even treasure. We don’t speak about him to everybody. I don’t know who you are out Thea but I know the pain of loving somebody who does not love you back nor appreciate. i’m not saying God will cry or leave like I did but what i’m saying is, work on your relationship now. Don’t miss out on the chance to love God back now while you still can. This is the time to adore Him even if your heart is heavy because He will lift the heaviness. God bless you as you reflect on the Unconditional Love.”