A crush on someone may make you lose focus. Being able to take care of this for things when in a relationship may just be what you need.

1. Take good care of yourself
Physical appearance plays a huge role in whether someone will be attracted to someone else.

How well you care for your physical health and appearance is something that people can see right away, so it is worth putting some extra time and energy into while you are trying to attract someone.

People will notice if you don’t care for yourself and this may make someone lose interest.

2. Make a name for yourself
Do something that they will remember and show them that there is so much more to you than just a pretty smile.

Make sure that your personality shines through and he knows about your likes and dislikes. Being passionate about something is very attractive and others will take notice.

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3. Be kind
Treat others the way you want to be treated. It may sound cheesy, but it’s true. If you want others to treat you with care and respect, you should start treating others this way, too.

People are more likely to fall in love with other people who have great personalities, who are polite, and who are kind to others.

4. Show your flaws
Let him or her see how far you’ve come.

For example, if you are fit and active now, but you used to be a couch potato, tell the person about your transformation.

Revealing some of your past shortcomings to someone will allow him or her to see the real you and appreciate you even more.

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