I will never understand why Kenyan men reject polygamy, condemning it to forever be a relic of the past yet they will take on copious amounts of mistresses and clandestine lovers, popularly referred to as "clandes".
Even more gobsmacking is the fact that a woman will more readily forgive a man for straying with a clande or of having a mistress than they would a man who wants to take on a legitimate 2nd wife.
Why this is I will never understand. However, I do know that I am not for it.
But away from that side rant and back to what brought you here. I spoke to a wide range of women about some of the spite they have had to endure in the name of being clandes. The women I spoke to range in age from 21 to 27 and their "sponsors" ranged in age from 30 to 45 and were infact all married or in serious relationships spanning many years.
What they had to say was nothing less than staggering! Sample some of the madharau these women have had to endure below:
Habida opens up after losing her voice for two weeks