A Kenyan lady has sparked mixed reactions on social media with a strong opinion on how the relationship between a baby mama and baby daddy should be handled.
She argues that as a man you shouldn't allow your wife to make any contact with the baby daddy.
She goes on to add that since the wife is under your maintenance as a family wife.
The husband should be responsible for inquiries from both parties and provide solutions to problems.
"Baby mama ni mtu mulizaa na yeyye na bado hajaolewa , Kama mtu ameza na ameolewa na anainsist lazima ameet na baby daddy wake ,,,,wacheni ufala ,,,, wacheni kuwa hypocrites," the woman speculates.
The lady terms a man allowing his wife to meet her baby daddy as a weak man.
He says they shouldn't tolerate some of these things as they may create insecurities that may later lead to failure in marriage.
" Wanaume siku hizi mmekaliwa sana eti umeoa mtu mpaka umemlipia dowry na bado anaenda kumeet baby daddy its like you are not capeable kuwa baba ya huyo mtoto,,,,,,,,,kama wewe ni mwanaume na umeoa mtu ako na mtoto na bado anameet baby daddy imagine wewe umefail,"
She goes on to state that a relationship between a baby mama and her ex-sparks some favorite memories that may lead to comfortability in the meet and even may lead to gossiping about her recent marriage.
She says worst still couples might opt to indulge in some intimate actions.
"Unastukia mwanamke ameolewa na bado hajawai move on, unajua ukioa mtu ako na mtoto na anameet na ex wanafikanga place wanaanza kukusengenya ,,,the more unakaa na mtu the more anajua weeknes yako,,,"
Do you support this argument or people should be allowed to co-parent in the best way they know how?
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