Infidelity is a vice that is slowly picking up in modern-day society.

The big question is 'What would you do if you found out your partner is cheating?"

According to Motivational speaker and pastor Sam West, just because your partner is cheating doesn't mean you have to make rush decisions. 

Here are things you should NEVER do if you find out your partner is cheating on you.

 Do not make a rush decision

In the heat of the moment, you should control your emotions.

 In such a moment you are 'mad'. Stay calm, if you can walk away.

Sam advised me to look for someone to talk to.

 Do not confront the other person

Focus on your partner.

Confronting the person your partner is cheating on is beneath you.

Do not force an apology

If your partner is not willing to apologize, do not force an apology.

His advice comes at a time when Kenyan socialite Risper Faith revealed she would never leave her man for cheating.

 According to the mother of one, she would rather sit and talk things out. Speaking during an interview with Oga Obinna she shared 

"I will ask him why he cheated," she said 

"Nowadays there's nothing like parting ways, I don't want to go back to Webuye. I will stay in Kitusuru, at the mansion until the end."

In the past Huddah Monroe also stated she would never leave a man for cheating.

She would however leave a man for being stingy.

I would never leave a man for cheating. But I would be quick to leave if he is a liar. I'm not your mother. I won’t beat you up. We are adults. Keep it 100 percent, especially black men lie for no reason at all,” remarked Ms Monroe.

Wambui Kajim, wife to Gukena FM presenter Kajim also said she would never leave her hubby for cheating

In an interactive session on TukoExra, she stated

'I cannot leave you if I found you cheating.

But if you ever hit me I would leave, you would never notice I was there."

Would Kajim forgive his wife if she cheated?

"I cannot forgive you for cheating." 

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