'I messed up' Prophetess Monicah speaks on turning 40 and being a wife

MAUREEN WARUINGE ENTERTAINMENT JOURNALIST

18 March 2024

• Prophetess Monica is a mother of two.

• She has chosen to live life on her own terms.

Prophetess Monicah is in a celebratory mood as she marks her 40th birthday.

The preacher has been trending after sharing pictures in a wedding gown. Monicah was previously married. She is a mother of two.

"Let's start with relationships, when you are getting into a relationship are you ready? I'm talking out of experience, I messed up, I did.

Some of us make mistakes because of the pressure of life. "

The most profound lesson to her is 'Communication.'

On her YouTube channel, she told how she made a mistake confiding in friends to help solve her marital challenges.

"Hi nayo ilinichapa kofi. People that we run to, and they are people that we respect, Some of these people are asking when will your marriage break? I do know why, and some of these people are married, and not to even marry you. People can sometimes be wicked" she warned.

She detailed things she has learned about relationships and marriages. This guides her new outlook

"Because I've come at 40 I've decided to do my life, so when you see me do my things, let me do"

Laughing she continued

"When you are getting into a relationship, are you ready? I'm talking out of experience, i messed up I did, be ready don't be under any pressure don't date because you have turned 30, or 35 because you don't have peer pressure that your family is telling you to get married, menopause is here, you will get into that relationship, at the end of it, it will break if you are not ready, at some point only God can intervene."

She spoke about lack of compatibility saying

"If it is not working, it is not working, yes I've learned that. I'm telling you for free mtakosana, I've come to realize, have your own money"

She has deliberately learned to love unconditionally and forgive fully."I've come to realize this, learn the love language of your partner. "

One lesson she has learned is living her life.

"Be yourself. I have struggled with this, oh what will people say, oh what will happen, church itaisha, watu wataenda ei, be yourself. People's opinions do not matter in your life. It will only pin you down. People will always be people and mark you people that you fear so much they even don't know you personally. Be you, do your life. Don't compete with anyone, compete with yourself if you have to compete, compete with you." she shared.