Phil Director vividly recalls being in the labor ward with ex-Kate Actress and vowing to never find himself there again.
Philip Katanja just turned 37 years old and in a new interview here is confessing that he doesn't want another child.
In a sit down with his friends Abel Mutua, Newson, and Njugush on Judy Nyawira's YouTube channel, Phil recounted how being in a labor ward permanently traumatized him.
"I've been a father of the last 8 years, one to a teenage son and a four-year-old girl," he shared
He shares daughter Njeri with Kate Actress. The couple is separated.
When Kate Actress was pregnant, all Phil wanted was for the baby to be born at night. His wish was granted.
"I was asleep and at 4 am, she was like my water broke. First of all, I was confused but luckily we were prepped. We waited for her BFF to come. I remember I always wanted this child to come at night, time yenye hakuna jam," he feared her being in pain.
They delivered at Mp Shah.
"I was there in the delivery room. I cried when I saw our baby, around 10-11 am. I don't think there are people who are strong like women. I saw the entire process vile Njeri came I said I am never getting another lady pregnant ever again, juu why would I put someone's daughter through that? again, heh, that thing."
"Nope, I am not putting any human being through this again, coz it's life and death,".
Fatherhood has changed him in terms of "My introduction to fatherhood was a bit earlier, I was feeling unequipped, I did a course on fatherhood, and preparing to be a father. When Njeri came, I had this overwhelming, overpowering feeling of love. I would be willing to die for this little thing and to date it's still he same. There's nothing I wouldn't do"
Phil is teaching his son Leon financial literacy and they work out together.
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