Lydia says she regrets doing wifely duties for a man who had not married her
"I would wake up cook breakfast, and iron his clothes.I was a waitress at the time. He would pass by my job eat and leave the bill for me to pay. He also expected me to buy supper.He would still wait for me to come and cook.The society has made it feel like women must support their men."
Lydia says at the time she felt loved. Unknown to her she was being love bombed.
"He was using his money on other women.On weekends he would lie he was going to Nakuru to visit his mum.One day I forgot the tap on and found the house flooded, so I wanted to ask for the caretaker's number.I couldn't reach him, so I called the mum, and the mum informed me she had not seen him."
How did he keep up with the lies?
"The last time she had seen him was three months earlier.He would live on Saturday and come back on Monday evening.I later found out that he had two other girlfriends.He had lied to them that I was his small sister."
In conclusion, she says
"The red flags were there, he would lie he was either a personal driver or a doctor among other things."
To date I do not know what job he did to earn a living."
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