In today's morning conversation on Classic 105, Maina and Mwalimu King'ang'i had a controversial topic revolving around Communication
The question of the day was, Women for how long can you stay without talking to your husband and why would you still stay there without any communication?
The morning conversation was inspired by a previous conversation that happened on Monday when a man told the duo that he had stayed 4 months without talking to his wife and he didn't care about the wife at all.
Maina being known for being a woman activist, today accepted that he has tried but isn't succeeding in understanding women.
"I have tried understanding these women na nimeshindwa, what do you guys really want?"
He added that he doesn't want to marry because of non-communication.
"Mimi ndio mnataka niingie hapa kwa place tui haniongeleshi hapana."
Today's conversation received a great audience and listeners were eager to chip in their opinions. Below is what some of the callers had to say.
The first caller said;
"Sina shida kama hatakikuniongelesha as long as in the morning the guy leaves money on the table why should I leave, he provides for the family and takes care of the children I’m not leaving. I have stayed for 6 months without talking stop my husband because we had a small grudge and I’m not going anywhere. Nilishatoka kwa wazazi siexi rudi nitavumilia hapo hapo."
Another added;
"Mwanaume ni rahisi kutoka kwa nyumba, how do you expect me to get out na ni wewe unaprovide, You promised in the marriage vow for better or worse we will stay together whether you want it or not."
The next said;
"Mtu hakuongelehe ukona yeye kwanini si utoke, unafa uonyeshe mwanaume you can still leave without him, ukona watoto wako ukona nguvu yako toka ukatafute. Maina I waited then gave up after nishikiwe kisu I walked away, I have two kids and I'm taking care of them on my own, women don't stay where you are not wanted toka uende usisahau what a man can do a woman can do better you'll survive without them."
Another added;
"These ladies have always thought we can't do anything without them, Maina stop misleading these women they will go and suffer out there they will have to come back whether they like it or not. Women should accept the fact they can't stay without us."
Some listeners didn't want to be left out of the conversation and tweeted their reply this is what they had to say.
@Rabecca91-The moment a man starts seeing another woman somewhere he starts misbehaving thinking that the other one is a saint but akiachwa anakimbia patanisho. Siku hizi we don't leave when they want us to we plan and execute polepole.
@official_pytah-For a man to stop talking to the wife, the wife made a grave mistake yenye she thinks the huzzy doesn't know. And remember the nature of men, tunaona na kunyamaza.
@fredric71756099-Ego is what kills many marriages coz you want me to eat up your mistake for your ego to prevail Few will accept that but with time we will all behave egos to prove right That is the point where we won't talk anymore coz we can't come to an agreement
@jennykanyiri-Mature adults should be able to solve any misunderstanding in a relationship but if one or both of them have that inflated ego nothing can be resolved
@Sue254mwituria-That woman is either broke or doesn't love herself I can't stay ukininyamazia a week am done, she depends on the man to survive ladies don't get married if you don't have your own money, either a job, business or flow income
@AmproseKev-Leave alone married women ata sisi huku campus we spend months living in the same room with your girl but no talking. It's not something new!
@Annmitchel5-This disrespect, unfaithfulness, is brought because the man thinks you can't leave without him, just empower yourself as a woman and no man will take you for granted, your survival doesn't depend on him for you to accept this infidelity na madharau
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