Piece by: ZENNA ISSA

05 October 2023

• Can a man really forgive a woman who has cheated on him more than two times or cheated at him at all?

In the morning conversation at Classic105, the dynamic duo had an interesting conversation revolving around cheating women.

The question of the day was, 'Can a man forgive a woman who has cheated on him more than two times?'

Mwalimu was quick to support men claiming that there were men who could easily forgive women and he could also forgive a woman when he got her cheating.

"Maina usiniangalie! Sitaki pressure. There are men out here who have forgiven their women even five times!"

Maina on the other hand didn't believe Mwalimu's words at all and even said men have double standards they want to be forgiven yet they can't forgive.

Maina: You cannot have double standards, if you can ask her for forgiveness 10 times then you should also forgive her 10 times.

Callers were quick to build up the conversation this is what they had to say. The first caller said;

"Siezi forgive msichana amenicheat completely, mimi kucheat lazma aniforgive lakini mimi siezi forgive a cheating partner."

Another added;

"If I got the notion that my woman is entertaining the thought of cheating mambo itakuwa mbaya! For a woman to cheat with another man a lot of thinking has gone into it. There is no man who leaves the house with the thought of cheating!"

The next caller said;

"Maina unajua mwanamke the minute umempatia chance ya kucheat na unamsamehea anaifanya repetitively, utapata anakucheat kila saa ndio arevenge siezi kubali, ukinicheat ndio hivyo relationship imeisha."

Another added;

My wife has cheated on me and I've caught her several times, nimemuekua tracker kwa simu na katafuta spies wanaanglia kenye anafanya job, she used to cheat with her boss sijamuacha tuko bado married. Siezi muacha sai unajua kitu imeshikilia ndoa ni watoto huezi muacha juu yao.

The last caller of the day said;

Nilirudi kutoka gishagi nikapata jamaa amevaa shati na kinyasa nyangu ameshika remote ya dstv anaswitch stations, niliingia nikaenda jikona nikarudi na kisu. huyo jamaa aliniona akasema nikimuuwa nitakuwa nimepata laana.Maina huyo mzee alikuwa 20 years older than me na I'm older than my wife na 5 years, nilishika kisu nikawaambia waruke na dirisha wakaruka. Mama mkwe alikuja akanipeleka ndani mimi kupigia father in law alikuja akanitoa na akasema hiyo ni tabia ya mamake amefwata. My wife na mama yake wanaishi kwa kina mamake. Siezi forgive cheating.

Some callers tweeted their views, this is what they had to say.

@EllikinsL69344-This excuse of we are together because of our kids kwani mukisha separate hamuezi chunga watoto wenyu venye inafaa come on siezi vumilia in atoxic relationship at all

@mc_tonj -Maina, a lady cheating is now an indication that she hasn't decided to settle me. I'll dump her, there's nothing like forgiveness in that. There are things I can't compromise or even take lightly.

@peterN029-Never!! Women invest their feelings and emotions while cheating, which means she has a thing for that guy unlike us men temptations ni za Abdallah no strings attached

@Uncle_Tiim-Let me tell you, Maina, a man who keeps forgiving his wife will end up raising another man's kids. Men should be men. Women won't respect weak men.

@mosesmurokh-A true apology should always be accompanied by a change in behaviour and habits...otherwise hiyo ni bure...Good morning!

@aduda2015-Maina hawa wanawake siku hizi wacha ata kucheat ile pombe wanakunywa ni kama hao ndio taster wa breweries,mimi wangu nilitoka job sikumpata na nimetoka tena kwangu asubui hajarudi n have been forgiving her but nikama hii msamaha ameichulia kuwa weakness