Kenyan US-based Nurse Judy has a strong message to toxic baby mamas.
She used her situation to communicate her annoyance at toxic baby mamas.
"I almost became one for 5mins. TELL ME HOW WE WERE CO PARENTING GOALA THEN THIS HAPPENED. ..and things quickly happened #IstandwithRapudo"
Nurse Judy was also using the situation of Kennedy Rapudo and his second baby mama to weigh in with some advice.
"I don't like being opinionated about other people's drama and secondly boma za watu we will never understand, I have been following this ka chai and I stand with Rapudo 100 percent.
Also, I'm not gonna be quick to judge the baby mama coz I know how these things happen sometimes. Baby mamas can be toxic. I almost became one we feel like we are the only people who can take really good care of our kids.
That's our problem. You feel like you are the only person who can offer a good safe environment." she talked about women's habits.
Judy added that this concern is not good
"But again you have to remember when you two went your separate ways, the other has rights to the child as well," sharing that some people have been unable to move on.
Before one of you moves on things are okay, but the minute one of you moves on eh, chaos. "
She said this is what happened in her situation after departing from her child's father.
Judy successfully co-parented for one year when her baby dadd moved on yet she was hopeful they would rekindle their romance.
She made their situation very difficult because he also had to spend time with his new girlfriend.
"Yes we do have real deadbeat dads who don't care about their kids but we also have toxic baby mamas that frame the dads to look like they are deadbeat while they are the ones frustrating these dads to have access or to be present!
This type of baby mama forgets in the process of trying to frustrate the men, the kids get hurt more🥹! The saddest part is, that so many separations and divorces happening and these are the situations for most!Machungu za separation lead to bitter or impossible co-parenting.
When we separated &before we got back together we did for so many months peacefully, then there was this particular month things took a different turn😂😂My friend🤭It wasn't funny!!! Listen to the story time above!"
Two weekends ago, Rapudo went all out to celebrate the 8th birthday party for his son Nate.The little boy did not turn up and it turned out that Rapudo's baby mama had issues with the party.
He told Mungai Eve that two main issues expressed by his baby mama may have led to the boy not showing up.
His baby mama wanted a house manager to tag along with the boy, and she had concerns about the boy's diet.
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