Woman left confused after her boyfriend asked her why she is not dating

Piece by: WAMBUI FAITH

08 September 2023

• Do you have a way to figure out that you are the main person in your relationship?

A caller on Kiss FM's Morning Kiss with Chito and Kwambox shared how she discovered she had been single for 2 months while thinking she was in a relationship.

The babe said that they had been dating for 2 months and one day while they were chilling the guy asked her why she didn't have a boyfriend.

From how she explained it seems like she was the only one in that relationship for she had been in it for 2 months after she discovered that she wasn't the primary partner.

Kwambox supports the listeners who said that the whole time she wasn't in a relationship.

Chito, as a member of the 'men's conference' speaking on behalf of the guy says that maybe the guy was trying to figure out what kind of relationship they had.

Her story led to the question of the day; "How do you know that you are the main in a relationship?"

Chito says that he would know that he is the main one if they were hanging out more. The more you spend time together the more the probability of being the main raises.

Nowadays it is very hard to figure out if you are the main or the side person, people have become secretive to the point that they can't share if they are in a relationship or not.

Some people are saying that you don't have to know about it, you should just go with the flow.

Kiss FM listeners shared their thoughts on how they figure out that they are the main here are examples;

Caller: If she washes you up, that's an absolute that you are the main one. The time that she agrees to help you dress, 'akikupelekea maji bafu' you are the one.

Caller: When she is the one requesting to come over to your house. A many instances we men are the ones who are always inviting our girlfriends over but from the moment she asks to come over without my invite then I bam the main.

Caller: I know that I am the main when I can visit him at any time of the day even without asking for his permission. When he shows me that I can visit him even without making a phone call or texting him.

As for me; I am not the main until I am proposed to, I take no risks. You can share how you get to figure out that you are the main one in a relationship in the comment section.