Socialite and businesswoman Risper Faith has made a shocking confession on her social media. The mother of one admitted to trying to trap men by getting pregnant.
It did not work as she had planned, and she says that was God teaching her a valuable lesson.
"Nimekuwa na maboyfriend wengi. Lakini hakuna siku nimewahi shika mimba. Nimejaribu kutrap wababa wengi sana but mimba haijawahi ingia. Nilikuwa nadhani mimi ni barren siezi zaa hatuna nyota ya kushika mimba kwetu, hatukuwa nayo lakini Mungu alikuwa anataka niolewe ndio nishike mimba."
Surprisingly, she conceived immediately after she got married to her husband Brian. She was shocked that it happened so fast considering her past attempts with other men,
"Nikaolewa second month after my wedding nikapata mimba. Bila kustruggle."
Risper quickly shared the news with the person closest to her - her sister Carol. The two are very tight siblings and Carol came to see first hand if indeed it was true.
"The first person nilipigia ni sister wangu. Nikamwambia Carol nimeshika mimba. Akaniambia, 'Risper uwongo,' Nikamwambia achukuwe motorbike akuje aone. Carol akakuja na vitu za pewa mimba nne. Tukapima ya kwanza, iko double, ya pili iko double, ya tatu iko double, akaniambia yes umeshika mimba Risper. Enda sasa uambie Brian."
Brian her husband as well had a brief moment before accepting the news.
"Nikaenda nikaambia bwanangu babe niko na mimba. Akaniambia no, hauna mimba. Nikawmambia niko na mimba," wiping away tears as she continued recounting.
She added,
"Nikamuletea hizo vitu akasema waaah ni ukweli. Nimekuwa na wabab wengi, nimena maboyfriend wengi, lakini hakuna siku nimewahi pata mimba. Nimejaribu kutrap wababa wengi sana but mimba haijawahi ingia."
To date we have never seen the face of her son with Brian, citing cyberbullying as her reason for keeping away from the public limelight.
Risper and Brian got married on February 3, 2018. They met online through a chance DM. At the time she was looking for a man, she had a special prayer to God.
“I didn’t know that Brian would become my husband when we met. It was just my luck. I kept praying to God telling him ‘please God, I am tired. Let this one be the one for me’ and God hears prayers. Even at that time I gave my life to Jesus Christ and got born again, I went to church and I continued praying to God. On top of my list was a good man who would respect me and won’t sexualize me or view me as a sexual symbol. These days, when men look at my photos on Instagram, see my back side, my large breasts and all they see is a sexual object. They only want to use you for sex and nothing more."
She specifically wanted a man who had lived abroad, was exposed to the world, and loved his mother.
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