Kenyan artist David Mathenge alias Nameless says relationship drama almost broke his relationship with Wahu.
Speaking in an interview on 'The Failure Effect' YouTube channel
"The first year of marriage I was like Kwani I made a mistake.
The second year we went for counseling, we were told the issues we had were normal.
At some point, we had to take a step back and ask ourselves if there was something we were doing wrong."
Nameless moved out, it was consensual between the couple.
"There was a time I moved out at some point, it wasn't as dramatic but it came at a time we could focus on things.
It forced us to focus on our issues. It helped us focus on ourselves.
We didn't define it as a separation, it was just a time-out."
Adding
"In our 30s there was a lot of pull and back, there were so many things that were going on. What I have done because of those struggles is have people I talk to a lot.
They include my psychologist, life coach, my siblings, etc."
Nameless says self-care is important adding that it shouldn't be taken for selfishness.
"The more you understand yourself, the more you will be good to others.T o improve yourself you cannot do it yourself.
We realized that mindset is very important, You have to reinvent yourself, you can't be the same utabore mtu."
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