• Chito Ndhlovu kiss 100 radio presenter gives reasons why men walk away from relationships, families, and responsibilities.
• Men leave just to find safe spaces
Chito Ndhlovu kiss 100 radio presenter and Daniel gives reasons why men walk away from relationships, families, and responsibilities.
During the conversation on Manspeqtive podcast, they stated that men leave just to find safe spaces where they can be themselves without being judged adding that and their love for peace;
" Men struggle to find safe spaces where they can process their traumas and emotions and the only way to get peace is just leaving."
He also stated that men just need peace, and respect from their partners or anyone around them because they leave due to toxic situations and women's complexities and pressure further explaining that peace and respect go hand in hand.
"We are not moved by women's complexities, pressure, and comparison, we just need respect, sasa sitalala juu you had a dream that I cheated on you, unanipigia kelele, I don't care how beautiful you are, you can just go and give me my peace" Chito mouthed.
Daniel went ahead and gave an example of a man who left years ago explaining that," I have an uncle who left in 1990 and till today no one knows where he is "
They continued expaunding that, men don't talk a lot and opt for suicide or leaving because they are always taken for granted in that they are the only gender that is judged for living their lives noting " When men talk, we are shamed and when we try a different option that leaving, then we are not taking responsibility."
Speaking of deadbeat fathers, the radio presenter said, 90% of the conversations he has had with men labeled as deadbeat is that " the baby mamas are the ones who hold kids ransom because they feel like the money men send is not enough and use kids as bargaining power."