• Dating older women/men in Kanairo is a normal thing.
• Such relationships are mainly dependent on what one can offer, the woman in most instances offers sex in return for financial support.
Motivational speaker Sam West now says Kenyans need to rebuke the spirit of infidelity roaming in Nairobi.
He says that most marriages break once someone comes to Nairobi.
"There is a demon of cheating that surrounds Nairobi.
A demon of loving older women
A woman coming from Nyeri, Nakuru, or Mombasa might be saved but once she gets to Nairobi she starts cheating. The same woman might have been faithful for over 10 years.
Nairobi atmosphere is controlled by sex."
Sam added that
"Matatus play sexual music. Radio stations talk about sex. Artists only love producing music revolving around intimacy.
People propagating sex come from the church. Club owners, event organizers, etc.
Some of these used to host major gospel events but now they are promoting usherati."
How do we control this?
"We need to fix the atmosphere in Nairobi for us to fix what is happening here.
It's time Christians revolt, wakifunua hii side (secular) tunafunika).
There needs to be a revival or a revolt."
In the past Sam West had asked parents to be present in the lives of their daughter's to reduce instances of them seeking love in the wrong places(Wababa)
Sam says most young girls nowadays want to date wababa who will in return spoil them with gifts in exchange for sex.
According to the motivational speaker most young girls dating 'wababa' lack father figures.
"We researched further and discovered that almost all the girls in such relationships lacked a father figure in their life.
They are either raised by a single mum, have an absent father, or a present but absent father."
Sam says most of these girls fall for the trap because these men offer them things they cannot resist. Money, attention, and affection.
"In the search for a father figure, the girls strike up a relationship with any man who showcases signs of being interested in her and what she believes in.
The men unknowingly think the girls are head over heels in love vat them.
Kumbe they are just looking for a father figure.
There are some special cases where some have great present fathers that they admire and get attracted to people with similar traits to those of their dads."
A divorce statistic released recently showed an alarming rate of divorce cases in Kenya in 2022.
Data released by the Judiciary through the State of the Judiciary Annual Report (SOJAR) indicate that in the last financial year ending June 2022, 3,784 divorce cases were filed at the magistrate courts across the country while 1,820 were filed at the Kadhi courts.
Among the main reasons cited by spouses seeking divorce are
- Abuse and cruelty
- Lack of maintenance
- Change of religion
- Lack of conjugal right
- Drug and substance abuse
- Unjustified polygamy
Do you agree with Sam West that Nairobi has the spirit of infidelity roaming in the air?