She said being in a space where people had an opinion about someone they did not know was expensive and many times she found herself trending.
"Being in this space now, where I have to endure insults, and everyone is on my case even those who don't know me. At one time, I was sitting with Guardian in a room and wondering if I had offended anyone," she narrated.
Musila recounts sitting down with Guardian after waking up trending on blogs and Twitter because she had chosen to be herself and fell in love with someone she loved.
"That I was having my name trending every now and then. It was very hard especially for my children since they were wondering why there was so much hate yet the hate came from people who did know me," she said.
Musila said the hate came directly to her husband's social media when he posted her photos.
Because her social media pages were private, Musila said she received thousands of friend requests but decided to open a public page for the people who wanted to know who she was.
"The hate was from the photos my husband posted on his account about me or from blogs. I found that everyone wanted to know Esther and so, my social media were flooded with friend requests. I thought they would crash. I decided to open a public page for everyone who wanted to know who I was," she said adding that she still has her private accounts.
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