When in a relationship it is quite hard to predict that you could be the second woman.
Women tend to get in a relationship with a guy thinking he is a single man, everyone else around them would know she is the second woman, especially the guy’s friends leaving her in the dark.
A side-chick is one of the greatest nightmares for any woman to be; you are the second from the wife or the main girlfriend.
A huge number are those who have no idea but not to worry here are some signs that show you are the side chick ;
- Does not define the relationship
Guys woo girls into being with them for months or even years without stating what exactly the relationship is. Every time the topic to define the relationship is brought up they have an excuse to brush off the question.
You might believe him when he says his grandmother is in a coma just to avoid the conversation, but don’t be fooled he just might be lying to keep you around for as long as he wants.
Let him define your status.
Ladies if your man never lets you meet his friends and you’ve been together for an appropriate number of years that’s a red flag. A man would never hide his friend from his main chic it is a possibility that he doesn’t want you in his life.
Additionally, there is nothing wrong with having secrets we all have but a man hiding information on his whereabouts, picking calls away from you then he is hiding something. Leave that man!
Not everyone enjoys a public display of affection but there are ways in which a man can show to the world that you are his girl.
For instance, when you and your man are out on a hangout with friends or a dinner date and you try to hold his hand or even give him a kiss he brushes you off; while you’re indoors he encourages that man must be hiding something from you.
A typical boyfriend will not give you a structured time on when to meet or even hang out.
It’s understandable if a man is busy but there is a difference between planning a time to meet and sneaky scheduling with you.
All this man is doing is trying to balance both relationships he has with you and his girlfriend or wife.
If your ‘man’ never picks up your call at particular times he may be hiding something.
If you call in the nighttime and he never picks or whispers when he does then he must be hiding his wife. Run sis!
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