• Anerlisa said another reason her relationships failed was that some men she dated felt entitled to her properties and life.
• Anerlisa highlighted how one of her exes told her to build him a house and establish a business venture like hers for him.
Keroche Breweries heiress Anerlisa Muigai has opened up on why she dumps most of the men she has dated.
In recent insta stories, Anerlisa said most of her exes dated her for selfish reasons.
Anerlisa highlighted how one of her exes told her to build him a house and establish a business venture like hers for him.
Anerlisa owns and runs the luxury bottled water brand, Executive.
She said after she refused to fulfil that obnoxious request, she was dumped within a week.
"I don't even know why this has just come up in my head. I have come to gather that most of the relationships fail because of (out of my experience) you get into a relationship for your own selfish reason," She said.
Adding, "Let me laugh, one of my exes once asked me this, 'We have been together for more than a year now and you haven't helped me?' I asked, "What do you mean helped?"
"I mean you should have built me a house by now or even opened for me a company like yours.. I answered " If you thought starting a relationship with me will make you rich, then you are in the wrong relationship" my friend, I was dropped in less than a week."
In another post, Anerlisa said another reason her relationships failed was that some men she dated felt entitled to her properties and life.
Anerlisa said the ex wanted her to share her ATM pin with him.
"Feeling entitled to the other person's things/life. There is this relationship I was in where the guy started to even ask me to show him my ATM pin, also when I was talking to my family, especially my mum, he wanted to hear and be part of the conversation e.g. Like dude, I have some personal things that need to be shared and discussed only with my family."
Anerlisa also explained how she found her ex plotting to steal money from her with his friend on phone.
According to her, the ex was planning to steal $30,000 which is equivalent to sh 3.5M but found out before he succeeded and dumped him.
"Having secretive calls and your partner not knowing what you are up to daily. So, one day I was coming from work, I opened my apartment door and then I walked into a phone conversation (in one of the rooms) that was about a plot on how the person I was dating at the time was going to con me. The person he was talking to, was helping him with the "perfect" plan,( still to this day, I ask myself, how did this dude not hear me getting in ) It was too much I even started recording the whole conversation."
"The amount they planned to take from me was $30,000 which they never succeed. And even if I hadn't walked in on them, they still wouldn't have succeeded because anyone who has dated me knows that I don't hand out money."
Anerlisa added that her exes leave with nothing but always remember her for her genuine love and experience.
"That's why I laugh when I hear people say "He dated her and left with nothing" Yes they leave with nothing, the only thing you'll remember is my genuine love and experience. Also, mind you I was only dating this person for less than a year and he had already come with his agenda."
She noted that people should get into a relationship to only love and make each other better mentally and emotionally.
"You might have a plan but God is the one who approves it and no evil plans are approved by him."