City Lawyer Nick Ndeda has explained some of the things couples should know before filing for child support.
Speaking while appearing on Spice Fm, he said
"You are supposed to file an affidavit of means, that shows your income and your expenditure.
You need to prove your income and the child's expenditure by providing receipts .
Whether it is paying the nanny, taking the child out, clothing the kid and paying school fees. kua na receipts"
Adding
"The court looks at who can afford what, so that the child can continue living a certain standard of life.
It's unfortunate that people lie.
The law is equitable in the sense that it allows one to provide what they can afford."
On how to handle a partner who lied about having kids, Nick advised that
"If he has kids from previous relationships he must provide the birth certificate.
I have seen people who have quit their jobs because their partners are paying child support."
Section 83 of the Children’s Act sets out the following principles guiding the court in making a custody order. The court must consider the following:
- The conduct and wishes of the parent or guardian of the child
- The ascertainable wishes of the relatives of the child
- The ascertainable wishes of any foster parent, or any person who has had actual custody of the child and under whom the child has made his/her home in the last 3 years before the application to the court.
- The ascertainable wishes of the child.
- Whether the child has suffered any harm, or is likely to suffer any harm if the order is not made,
- The customs of the community to which the child belongs.
- The religious persuasions of the child
- Whether a care order, or a supervision order, or a personal protection order, or an exclusion order has been made in relation to the child concerned and whether or not those orders remain in force.
- The circumstances of any sibling of the child concerned; and of any other children of the home, if any.
- The best interest of the child.
Once the court considers all the above, it will then proceed to make a custody order. Many times a court is guided by official inquiry reports made by Child Services, who then decide whether or not to recommend either parent to have custody of their child.
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