• Zulu advised that couples who are dating should meet in open places such as hotels.
Relationship expert Benjamin Zulu has warned men against being intimate with women they intend to marry.
According to Zulu, when a man sleeps with a lady before marriage, he becomes vulnerable.
"Don't sleep with a woman whom you intend to marry. You are teaching her what you do and she will never trust you because she knows your capacity.
If you are serious with a woman, don't take her to bed. Examination is not done in bed, it is done in boardrooms," Zulu said on the Wicked Edition.
Zulu advised that couples who are dating should meet in open places such as hotels.
"Ones a woman shows you her chest and thighs your thinking is off. You can not examine her when you are seeing her body. Some are slaying but there is no character."
He added that men can tell if a woman is the right one by observing her virtues.
"Does she have the wife quality of being honest? Stable? Does she look composed? These qualities are hard to get, don't be confused by Charisma, charm, shape, beauty, slay and atmosphere.
That is what men look at. Virtuous girls don't ask for money, they don't need to be sent fare to come," he said.