'True men don't ask women for money,' Benjamin Zulu

•"If you give a man money, you are Redcross but with added benefits."- Benjamin Zulu

Benjamin Zulu, an internationally acclaimed life coach and psychologist
Benjamin Zulu, an internationally acclaimed life coach and psychologist
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Life coach Benjamin Zulu has warned women against dating men who constantly ask for money from women.

Some women have in the past shared how they sent their men to school, bought them cars only to be left.

Zulu says most women ignore the red flags only to end up full of regrets. Speaking during Full Circle with Mwikali, the coach said,

"Women who are scammed over and over again. They were rejected and deprived of love so they are needy for love.

There is a thin line between love and foolishness. Scammers usually have no new tricks, it's the cobwebs in your eyes that stop you from noticing them.

As a woman, there are signs you should not ignore.

Do not date a person who is needy and who you are coming to rescue. The man should also build you. But when it's one way achana nayo.

e.g when a man is always saying 'I just lost my job/business and I need to revive it.' True men ask for money from their boys.

Needy men do not change, If you enter a relationship paying bills it will never change.

If you give a man money, you are Redcross but with added benefits."

Zulu added that sometimes women who have strict parents end up being vulnerable and fall in the wrong hands.

"Women who have been brought up by strict parents especially dads at some want to rebel and end up in the hands of team mafisi.

They may end up staying and realizing their mistakes when it is too late. They keep trying to change the man to no avail.

There is nothing painful as trying to defend a man only for these men to turn out about what society predicted.

The world is full of treachery.

Many women have a need to be wanted and they should tame it. Such women are vulnerable because they give but they do not know how to ask."

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