Speaking during an interview with Toke Makinwa, the South African businesswoman shared, "At some point, they were like 'We are not going to interfere because he beats you and you keep going back.'
At some point, they used to neglect me but they were like she is going through so much. But when I decided to leave they were like 'You need to want it for yourself.' My parents started getting concerned. Some days I was sure of myself, other days I wasn't."
Asked on how she forgave him and even visited him in hospital and attended his burial, Zari said, "When we don't forgive people it's not about them. During the time I was going through my separation from Ivan, I spent so much time in church.
I got saved and that was the beginning of my new journey. I forgave him, I prayed for him thinking that maybe if he changed we still had a chance but God had other plans."
Ivan died in 2017.
I learned of my son's death on social media- Hilary Litali's dad