Types of men you shouldn't consider settling down with

11 November 2021

• These types of men tell their mothers everything that happens in the marriage/relationship.

Marriage is a topic many women fear talking about over the fear of being misjudged depending on the partner they chose.

Every woman wants a good man but some of us end up with men who are like the seeds that fell on the road where everybody passed.

If you are planning on settling down soon, here are the types of men you should think twice before saying yes to

Mama’s boy

These types of men tell their mothers everything that happens in their marriage/relationship.

In most instances, the mother-in-law dictates where you will live, which schools your kids will go to, etc.

If you want to have a good relationship that will lead to marriage stay away from such men.

The insecure bae

We have all interacted or dated an insecure man. Everyman is insecure but in some instances, it becomes extreme and suffocating.

Such men will want to know where you are, who you were with, what you did, and for how long.

There is nothing you will do in that relationship without being questioned.

If you are the independent type of woman you might end up being frustrated till you forget to chase after your dreams.

The alcoholic

Alcoholism is a disease, but the truth is some women get into relationships hoping to change a man.

If a man is an alcoholic by the time you are dating, chances are the behavior will extend into marriage.

Sometimes such behaviour can trigger violence. So before you say, 'Yes', ask yourself if that man is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.

The workaholic

We all love a hardworking man, a man who is not afraid to get his hands dirty.

But there are men who are so much into their work that they have no time for anything else be it, family or friends.

So if you are the needy and clingy ‘type of woman, then this man won't be the one for you.

The abusive bae

Most times women ignore red flags on an abusive partner from the start hoping he will change.

If a man is physically, emotionally, or even sexually abusive while dating, trust me, he will worsen.

So run sister run.

Stingy

Being broke and being stingy are two different things. Being stingy means not wanting to provide for your woman even though you are in a position to.

If you man is the type that always says ‘cheque yangu imekwama’ just know it will end in premium tears.