•"There is a notion that once I am married to you I am now your property and my happiness is tied to you and you keep saying 'you are my man'." -Bien

Bien Barasa
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Speaking during an interview with 'Over Twenty Five' Bien advised couples against pegging their happiness on their partners.

According to Bien, everyone should find hobbies and things to do on their own.

"There is a notion that once I am married to you I am now your property and my happiness is tied to you and you keep saying 'You are my man'.

I am my own man, when you are with somebody you are not supposed to own them you are to experience them.

It does not mean because I am married I can't do some things.

You can't expect me to attend all your baby showers, all your friends' parties and dress up like you just so that we can take photos?

The truth is most guys hate that."

Bien was also quick to point out that if his wife fell in love with someone else she would never stop her from actualizing her 'fantasy'.

He has however insisted that he and his wife Chiki are not in an open marriage, where one partner is allowed to sleep with another person.

"Let's say I am married to Chiki for 30/40 years I am not expecting that am the only dude she will be with.

If she goes and meets the crush of her life, jibambe babe. I am not in an open relationship. All am saying is that during such a time the deal-breaker won't be sex

It can be trust or the business we have built together, the dynamics of a relationship keep changing. No one person can own a human being, I don't own my wife. She is her own woman. "

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