'Stop trapping men with babies,' Vera Sidika advises women

• Vera added that so many women end up single mothers as they thought getting pregnant for the men they fell in love with would stay after having their babies.

Vera Sidika and Brown Mauzo
Vera Sidika and Brown Mauzo
Image: Instagram

Socialite Vera Sidika has warned women to stop trapping men with pregnancy.

The mum-to-be in an Insta story post said that being pregnant for a man is not a ticket that he will  stays with you forever in that relationship.

She added that so many women end up single mothers as they thought getting pregnant for the men they fell in love with would stay after having their babies.

''Having a baby with someone doesn't mean you must be together forever. Pregnancy isn't a ticket to eternal marriage or a relationship.

This is a sad reality but yup. it is not the Your partner stays since they want to be in the marriage or relationship. That's it.

So many women trapping men with babies, only to end up single with five kids, different fathers. By trap I mean, y'all never spoke about having kids or a future together.

Y'all didn't plan for the pregnancy, it's probably even a new relationship, then boom, the woman deliberately gets pregnant thinking he will stay forever. Baby girl, don't ever try this game. Coz expectations always lead to disappointments.''

In another post, Vera said no amount of submissiveness will ever make any woman or man want to stay if they do not love you.

''No amount of sex, sex position, cooking, cleaning, faithfulness, trapping her/him with a baby will ever make him/her want to stay.

My dear, just accept fate, pick up the pieces and move on. Everything else is possible but you can't force a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship with you or doesn't want you anymore. That is the sad reality.''

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