As women, we have at one point in life told off men who want to date us by saying we are not ready for a relationship.

The truth of the matter is that it's not always true. In some instances, we are ready for a relationship but not with the person asking to date us.

Dear men, here is what it means when a woman tells you she is not ready.

1. It means she does not want to struggle with you so in short jipe shughuli and look for someone from your class.

2. She wants you to go get your life in order, she does not want to be the one to do the dirty work of helping you put your shit together.

3.Bado ako na washikaji wengine na unaeza haribu plan.

This is true, she might have many options and is clueless on which one to settle for, she might also be fearful of the benefits she might lose by getting attached to you.

4. She does not find you interesting enough.

So men don't force it when a lady says she is not ready otherwise utalilia kwa choo.

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