Bonfire adventure boss Sarah Kabu has asked women to learn to spoil and pamper their men as it spices up marriage and relationships.

Sarah was reacting to Alfred Mutua's message to Lilian thanking her for pushing him to celebrate his birthday.

Through her Instastories, Sarah now says Mutua's message has made her re-evaluate her marriage.

"Goat wives, have you ever planned a birthday party for your man? From the above post, it is clear that men also want to be pampered and spoiled no matter their age or pocket size.

I hope you will take notes here.

To be frank the post has made me tear as I reflect on my marriage in asking what is this thing I  am assuming that means the world to my man.

Anyway happy birthday Mhesh Lilian I suggest you take him birthday moon Burj Arab and blow a million in Dubai fest baadaye."

Lilian was among the guest invited to Alfred Mutua's birthday party which was held at Ole Sereni on Sunday, 22/08/2021.

Mutua was turning 51 and to celebrate his big day he held a double birthday party alongside Tanzanian artiste Rayvanny.