• Ben Pol said insecurities are part of the reasons he broke up with Anerlisa Muigai.
Singer Ben Pol has let the cat out of the bucket on why his relationship with Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai was like.
In a recent interview with 'Simulizi Na Sauti', the singer shared his part of the story on some of the things that triggered his breakup.
The musician said insecurities are part of the reasons they broke up.
''When reports emerged on social media, last year that we had split, things were bad. We were not in talking terms. Things were bad from her side that Anerlisa sent him documents from lawyers asking for separation.''
The two reconciled until February this year when they disagreed again.
This time things were intense although he tried to fix then but failed.
He added that the separation letter was sent to him asking him not to speak about his marriage.
''I think it was driven by a lot of insecurities and fear. People do so much when it comes to protecting their image brand. I think she felt that I know so much about her and that I would one day blast her.''
While asked to speak about how he handled men who sent Anerlisa Direct messages, Ben Pol said there was pressure as some of those DM's made her proud.
''Men who sent her DM's made her feel Proud but again, it is not the reason we parted.''
He added that he is ready to love again.
''Never say never. I can't hold myself. I will marry again even next week. I go with the flow. I have not been hurt that much to say I will never get married. I feel jealous of those in marriage but there is luck in marriage, you may do your best, but if the other person is not, then you can't succeed.''