Durama With Capital D! Beautiful TV Personality's Hubby Defends Her After Ex-Wife Calls Her Mpango Wa Kando

Piece by: Grace Kerongo
Lifestyle

Social media itatuonyesha maneno. A post that has gone viral exposes the beef between a husband, his ex-wife and a beautiful TV show host. The post that was put up on Kilimani Mums threw shade of the beautiful TV girl calling her a "mpango wa kando".

To avoid repeating the libelous nature of the post, I will just give you the skinny. The baby mama (Winnie Achy Nyarsuba) was not happy that the TV girl (Crystal Okusa) was posting photos of her daughter - whom she shares custody with ex-hubby Aloo Aloo Stephen - on social media.

Winnie went nuclear on Crystal in a post on Kilimani Mums, telling her to stop the social media posts. The baby mama then called her a "mpango wa kando" who nyemelead her hubby when they were married.

Now, the hubby, Aloo Aloo Stephen took to Kilimani Mums to defend the TV girl.

RIGHT OF RESPONSE

This morning I want to clarify on an issue that has been raised by Winnie Achy Nyarsuba my ex-wife on Kilimani mums. The main question is that did Crystal Okusa (my wife) have a right to post the picture of #Stobellah; a biological child to Winnie and a Stepchild to Crystal? She had the express permission to post the photo from the biological father that is me. Winnie and I have shared custody and equal parental responsibility that has been enforced in a court of law after 6 months of court proceedings; so anyone of us can give consent for the child. Posting her "worries" on KM only proves that the motive behind the post is not about the baby but a crafted attack on the character of Crystal Okusa. If Winnie had a genuine concern about the security of our daughter then she would have taken legal action; since we have been through that route already. Furthermore Stobellah has always been on social media even before she was born so Crystal's post is not the first and last post of Stobellah. She is a sensible and responsible mum. Crystal has her own biological daughter #Atubellah whom I consider as my own daughter and I never use the word step; she also does not call #Stobellah step.

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But since this is now public, let me clarify. Winnie and I had been physically staying together as parents but separated emotionally from 2014. So by the time Crystal and I met, Winnie and I were long over for over a year. Crystal was never a MWK as alleged. To allege that Crystal stole her husband is akin to clatching on straws amid a stormy sea. So Winnie should provide you with facts. No one steals your husband when you actually "claim" to be the one who walked away from the relationship. If Winnie is so bitter about her ex-husband she should take it up with the man not attack the woman with no basis. Just because we are co-parents does not give her jurisdiction about whom I spend the rest of my life with; unless that person presents as harm to #Stobellah. Posting on KM is an allegation of harm in itself which she should be ready to legally back up. In separations and divorce, kids may always have a stepmum and a stepdad; and no one can change that. The question is are we sensible to be co-parents or should we rely on pitty party about our ex on social media?

It is not my nature to indulge a mad person at a nude dancing competition. However, this is my right of response as the father of the children (Stobellah and Atubellah) whose photo has been posted on Kilimani Mums Nairobi Uncensored by Winnie. It's however Crystal's right to seek any legal redress as regards the damage to her reputation.

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