Over the weekend, one of my friends invited me over for a barbecue at her home in Kitengela. She had invited 30 people among the guests were her in-laws. Well, while some of us were busy enjoying the free nyama choma, I saw a lady crying from a distance and I moved near to inquire what the problem was! Shock on me! The woman broke down and started crying. "What's the problem," I asked?

"My boyfriend has left me. He is chasing after campus chics. I found love text messages on his phone. He is just using me for money..."

I had nothing to say but walked away only to find out later that she was dating a Ben 10. Well, I had a conversation with my colleagues this morning concerning this type of men. And below are the things Ben 10s or fvckboys can make a woman do. Go through...

1. Make you spend your money

A Ben 10 will satisfy you in bed and as a sign of appreciation, Kenyan women will give out all their savings and later regret.

2. Buy him expensive stuff

A Ben 10 or a fvckboy will make you do anything. From buying him expensive cars, designer clothes to paying for his exotic holidays. A woman will do anything just to please her Ben 10 who is jobless. Why buy him a car to impress young women?

3. Make him your personal assistant

But why, yet you can hire someone your child instead? Some women are so foolish and will give Ben 10s top positions in their companies. Some end up squandering your cash leaving your business in it's death bed.

4. Give him souvenirs

This is the greatest mistake women do just to make their Ben 10s happy. A woman would give out her souvenirs e.g expensive watches, hats and even jumpers and late on regret after things go south.

5. Lose touch with friends to defend your man

Most of your friends will not second the idea of having a Ben 10. But if you insist on having one, you will have to drop your friends. A Ben 10 will not allow you to have friends who are against him because he knows he is not there for love but for your money.

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