We all want to have someone to love us, care for us and be by our side whenever we need someone to lean on, but at times we may not find that person, and that's when we declare ourselves 'Single'.

There are some ladies who choose to remain single, but others are single because they have not yet found that person they can date or be in a relationship with.

So they may not be so happy or delighted to be single, and this is where one has to watch what they tell a single lady because she may not take it lightly or make it personal.

Well, here are some of the things you should never tell a single lady, especially from Kenya:

1. But You're Too Hot

Well, who told you just because she is hot she has to be dating someone, or she has to settle for anyone so that she can have a boyfriend.

2. You're Just Too Picky

Oh, because I'm supposed to pick up any man along the way to make him my boo.? The last thing a woman needs is to find out that she did not take time before starting a relationship and ended up dumping the guy.

3. You Have A Good Career, You Don't Need A Man

Really? So my career is supposed to warm my bed and cuddle me all night long? Wait, can I also talk to my career and lean on it when I need that shoulder to cry on?

4. Why Are You Still Single?

Because I'm supposed to be some god so that I can see my future husband and look for him? It's simple; I'm single because I'm not dating, and I don't have a man in my life to call my boyfriend/hubby.

5. There Are So Many Fishes In The Sea

As if I don't know that. So should I go out there and throw a net and whichever fish gets in I just pick it up and make it my own? Come on, I'm not that desperate, if I'm meant to meet that fish, I will; at the right time.

6. Must Be Fun That You Can Party All Night/You're Single

Wait, what fun is there that I'm partying all night long because I don't have a man to go back home to. Or the fact that I'm going back to a cold bed with no one to kiss and have sex with?

7. It Only Happens When You Stop Looking

Okay, let me shut my eyes and pray to the Lord above that when I open them I will find Prince Charming waiting there for me to give him a big hug! Unless you are the one who will help me get a partner when I stop looking!

8. Have You Tried Online Dating?

Give me a break! Who said I have to find the love of my life on an online dating site? How about the thought that online dating sites are pointless and time-wasting endeavour for me?