A relationship is not all about sex. It's more of helping each other and bonding with your better half.

A disgruntled city woman is cursing herself for falling in love with a stingy man. She narrated how assuming he would help her, she tried to borrow some cash from her boyfriend to inject into her business, but shock on her as he disappointed her.

In return, her boyfriend insulted her and told her never to show up at his house again. He went ahead to block her everywhere and since then, she has never communicated with him.

"I've been dating this guy for 8months. All through these 8 months I never asked this guy for a dime not even for once. Whenever I visited, all I ever got was the fare to go back home. I'm running a small scale business which I use to support myself and my siblings. My Kid sister fell ill recently and I took some money from my business to take care of her.

The money I took from my business really affected my business and things became really slow for me. 3 days ago I asked my boyfriend for the first time if he could help me with a some money for me to put into my business, and he hurled all sorts of insults at me. I was shocked, I couldn't believe my ears. Next thing he sent me a message never to go to his house again and finally, he blocked me everywhere. I love him very much. I loved him deeply. Guys I want to know if I did wrong by asking for a little bit of help. Why are some guys so heartless.."

Is it bad for women to ask for money from their husbands or boyfriends?

Check out what online users had to say about her situation

Lawrie: you didn't do anything wrong.. Let him go, he wasn't supposed to react dah way.. If he dint want to assist you, he should have simply told you

Nene: Stingy boyfriend

Tracy: Please forget about him

Lily: He is not your man. Stop loving who cannot be there for you. Grab sense madam.

Roselyn: No darling, love shouldn't be one sided, why block you because you asked for financial help?better days ahead dear

Nyade: He is the definition of USELESS if ur story is real.

Massawe: My dear he doesn't love you or maybe he does but a man that can not support you financially when you need his help he is no good

Bezimo: There is nothing wrong in you asking for his help.but for you to get that harsh reaction from him suggest there may be more to your story than you have presented, how did you ask... What happened before you asked... It's strange for him to insult you and even go ahead to block you for just asking for help. Something is not adding up.

Timmy: You dated him for 8 months without asking? Please no try am again at all

Connie: Some people are stingy for the whole universe.

Jovita: Wake up girl! He's not a real man and doesn't care about you

Martin: Your boyfriend is heartless, to say the least. You did nothing wrong by asking for a little help as you don't necessarily have to be his girlfriend for him to offer you help. Please love yourself and move on with life.

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