BIGGEST TURN-ONS

Neck kisses

Partner saying 'I like that'

Being undressed by partner

Partner performing oral s3x

Undressing partner

Having ear nibbled

Lingerie

Eye contact during s3x

Performing oral s3x on partner]

Being teased

S3x toys

Dirty talk in English

Partner doing a striptease

Being dominated

 Partner being rough

Being spanked by partner

Having hair pulled by partner

Biting

Having to be quiet and sneaky ('don't wake the roommate' etc.)

Role-playing

BIGGEST TURN-OFFS 

Poor hygiene

Being mean

Being rude to waitstaff

Eating with mouth open

Being flirty with other people

Talking about exes

Being cocky

Talking too much/not listening

Dressing poorly

Baby talk

Insecurity

Long fingernails

Wearing too much cologne/perfume

Being cheap

Lack of confidence

Body hair

Being too 'handsy' in public

Bad driver

Poor taste in shoes

Calling me pet names in public